My conversation with Ramy Elhamalawy with various references re: “Shaykh” Mahmud, Ramzy Ajem, Shelby Haque and “counselling” efforts.

Oct 2018

[2018-10-08, 11:48:14 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Insha’Allah Sidi
[2018-10-16, 6:25:09 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- have some time tomorrow during the day?
[2018-10-16, 6:25:19 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Need some advice
[2018-10-16, 6:26:16 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Convo may take some time...
[2018-10-16, 7:38:11 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa Salam Sidi. Sure insha’Allah. 
What time were you thinking?
[2018-10-16, 8:01:01 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Whenever is convenient for you sidi.
[2018-10-16, 8:02:25 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I have a 9am meeting, other than that I am open all day.
[2018-10-17, 6:55:44 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- sorry missed your call. I am home now. The convo is about family stuff. If possible a morning convo will be excellent. Whatever is practical and easier InshAllah.
[2018-10-17, 7:11:30 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa Salam sayyidi. My apologies. 
Insha’Allah I will try and call you in the day tomorrow. When do you leave the house usually?
[2018-10-17, 7:14:02 PM] Mohammad Rauf: No problem sidi. I am at my desk around 830 or so
[2018-10-17, 7:14:36 PM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah.
[2018-10-17, 7:48:50 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Okay insha’Allah
[2018-10-19, 6:34:43 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi Jazak Allah Khayr for the convo- MashAllah. Shukran sidi.
[2018-10-19, 6:35:23 PM] Mohammad Rauf: a few things came to mind- InshAllah I will try and ring you tomorrow sometime, InshAllah.
[2018-10-19, 6:43:19 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I should also Shaykh about too, InshaAllah. Through you ...
[2018-10-22, 5:45:53 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa Salam Sidi. Call me whenever you want habib
[2018-10-22, 5:45:59 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: I’m at your service
[2018-10-25, 8:19:07 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Shukran Sidi. I will call you on Saturday when she is in Calgary. There is more stuff.
[2018-10-25, 8:20:40 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Alright insha’Allah
[2018-10-25, 7:35:13 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Salam Sidi. Do you want to come and visit while the sisters have the mawlid?
[2018-10-25, 7:40:28 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Wassalaam sidi- I am thinking about it but I have a few things to finish up over the weekend. Might be tight.
[2018-10-25, 7:40:55 PM] Mohammad Rauf: And she might not be able to come either coz Behram is taking Taouba for their honeymoon lol
[2018-10-25, 7:41:02 PM] Mohammad Rauf: finally
[2018-10-25, 7:41:58 PM] Mohammad Rauf: But I definitely need to meet about this
[2018-10-25, 7:42:07 PM] Mohammad Rauf: it’s really something
[2018-10-25, 7:42:12 PM] Mohammad Rauf: 2pm today
[2018-10-25, 7:42:31 PM] Mohammad Rauf: barely got some food made. Not too sure. I need help lol
[2018-10-25, 7:42:45 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Will definitely have to talk to Shaykh.
[2018-10-25, 7:42:39 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: :)
[2018-10-25, 7:43:05 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Marhaban Sidi
[2018-10-25, 7:43:19 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: I’m at your service in anyway that I can help
[2018-10-25, 7:43:32 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Having lived for a little bit I can tell she has had excessiveeee sleeping.
[2018-10-25, 7:43:54 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Lol TabarakAllah sidi.
[2018-10-25, 7:44:03 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Allah bless you sidi
[2018-10-25, 7:44:08 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Please pray for us
[2018-10-25, 7:44:08 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: You mean you feel that this is her habit from before?
[2018-10-25, 7:44:16 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Yes
[2018-10-25, 7:44:19 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Long term
[2018-10-25, 7:44:22 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: I see
[2018-10-25, 7:44:32 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Anywho chat later InshAllah
[2018-10-25, 7:44:36 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Khair insha’Allah
[2018-10-25, 7:44:48 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Salam
[2018-10-25, 7:55:44 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Walaikum Assalaam sidi.
[2018-10-26, 8:22:00 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam sidi- InshAllah will be visiting you this weekend. Just not sure yet whether we leave tonight or tomorrow.
[2018-10-26, 5:25:45 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Salam Sidi. Yes please come tonight insha’Allah
[2018-10-26, 7:56:51 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam sidi
[2018-10-26, 7:57:09 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Could you send me your address please
[2018-10-26, 8:19:27 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: 75 Nolanhurst Gardens NW
[2018-10-26, 8:19:42 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: T3R1S8
[2018-10-26, 8:28:17 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Shukran sidi
[2018-10-28, 8:26:35 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Salam Sidi. What time are planning to head out?
[2018-10-28, 8:40:07 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Wassalam sidi- not sure as yet, waiting for Wife to finish wird
[2018-10-28, 8:40:42 AM] Mohammad Rauf: She just mentioned she is ready to go
[2018-10-28, 8:40:57 AM] Mohammad Rauf: So thinking we start packing
[2018-10-28, 8:43:01 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Alright Sidi. Let me give salam to you now then insha’Allah
[2018-10-28, 8:43:14 AM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah Sidi coming upstairs
[2018-10-28, 8:43:21 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: 👍🏽
[2018-10-28, 11:24:07 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- I have a question. It’s a general one.. InshAllah whwnevrr u can chat
[2018-10-28, 11:24:27 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Lol ure airtime is getting to premium level
[2018-10-28, 11:41:34 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa Salam Sidi. Call me anytime habib
[2018-11-04, 12:49:51 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- what do u make of one who gets lotsa nightmares
[2018-11-04, 12:55:05 PM] Mohammad Rauf: She screamed and launched out of the bed like a rocket almost knocked her head off
[2018-11-04, 12:55:30 PM] Mohammad Rauf: 2 nites ago
[2018-11-04, 9:57:53 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Subhan’Allah
[2018-11-04, 9:58:02 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: That’s interesting Sidi
[2018-11-04, 9:58:25 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Did you talk about it at all?
[2018-11-04, 10:32:28 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I did- but I never seem to get straight answers
[2018-11-04, 10:32:58 PM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah will talk more about it.
[2018-11-05, 11:22:54 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Subhan’Allah
[2018-11-16, 2:22:46 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- we are planning on heading out Saturday around noon
[2018-11-16, 2:23:00 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Ok if we stay at your place Sat night
[2018-11-19, 10:21:31 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Barely did a load of laundry- passed out. man.
[2018-11-19, 11:03:40 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Hmmm
[2018-11-19, 11:03:57 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Let me know what the plan is to call Sidna Shaykh
[2018-11-19, 11:09:22 AM] Mohammad Rauf: tomorrow InshAllah- want to have some talking points ready and taking day off tomorrow.
[2018-11-19, 11:09:36 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Mawlid ar my place tomorrow
[2018-11-19, 11:09:42 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Before you leave
[2018-11-19, 11:09:55 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Unless you have to be back sooner
[2018-11-19, 11:10:04 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: What time?
[2018-11-19, 11:10:37 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Right after Isha?
[2018-11-19, 11:10:43 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Flexible
[2018-11-19, 11:10:59 AM] Mohammad Rauf: We can do it earlier- except some ppl at work
[2018-11-19, 11:11:35 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: I’ll have to talk with Ayesha to find out
[2018-11-19, 11:11:41 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: I’ll let you know insha’Allah
[2018-11-19, 11:11:49 AM] Mohammad Rauf: I am trying to make it so sisters mWlid at behrams
[2018-11-19, 11:11:53 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Men at my place
[2018-11-19, 11:12:59 AM] Mohammad Rauf: 👍🏽
[2018-11-20, 9:14:52 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- will be there by 1030 InshAllah. That works?
[2018-11-20, 9:17:44 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa Salam Sidi. Insha’Allah sounds good
[2018-11-20, 9:29:09 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Shukran sidi.
[2018-11-20, 10:11:49 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Leaving home sidi- about 30 mins InshAllah
[2018-11-20, 4:54:59 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Jazak Allah Khayr for translating and your time, Sidi. Please pray for us.
[2018-11-21, 7:13:08 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wayyakum Sidi. It was my pleasure
[2018-11-21, 7:13:26 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Anytime I get to hear Sidi Shaykh’s voice is nice
[2018-11-21, 7:13:39 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: May Allah make things easy for you insha’Allah
[2018-11-21, 7:14:07 AM] Mohammad Rauf: MashaAllah Shukran sidi. Lemme know whenever you talk to Sudi Mohamad InshAllah
[2018-11-21, 7:53:55 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Insha’Allah
[2018-11-24, 11:41:30 AM] Mohammad Rauf: it’s almost noon.. barely got a load of laundry and just crawling doing the dishes. She is up because of me. She’d be in bed lol.
[2018-11-24, 11:49:19 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Sorry to keep bugging you on this sidi- lol I need an outlet.
‎[2018-11-25, 5:59:17 PM] Mohammad Rauf: ‎image omitted
[2018-11-25, 6:02:44 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Salam Sidi. Have you had a chance to call Sidi Mohamed yet?
[2018-11-25, 6:03:47 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- not yet.
[2018-11-25, 6:03:52 PM] Mohammad Rauf: u spoke with him?
[2018-11-25, 6:04:00 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Was waiting for ure convo.
[2018-11-25, 6:04:21 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Yeah Alhamdullilah I had a chance to update him as Sidna Shaykh instructed
[2018-11-25, 6:04:35 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: But I have not yet spoken with sayyida Ameera
[2018-11-25, 6:04:38 PM] Mohammad Rauf: MashAllah
[2018-11-25, 6:04:56 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Np- lemme talk to him first Inshallah
[2018-11-25, 6:05:24 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I will try calling you later today
[2018-11-25, 6:05:28 PM] Mohammad Rauf: U still there?
[2018-11-25, 6:05:41 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Flight leaves in about 40min
[2018-11-25, 6:05:46 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Insha’Allah
[2018-11-25, 6:08:24 PM] Mohammad Rauf: 👍
[2018-11-25, 6:08:41 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Safe travels sidi.
[2018-11-25, 6:09:04 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I wanna talk to you before speaking with Sidi Mohamad
[2018-11-25, 6:17:40 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Insha’Allah
[2018-11-25, 6:18:00 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Maybe you should at least message him to try and get an appointment
[2018-11-25, 6:25:37 PM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah
[2018-11-25, 6:25:58 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Gonna msg him right now
[2018-12-01, 4:24:48 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- how are u doing sidi. Inshallah see you later tonight
[2018-12-01, 4:25:56 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I am assuming you haven’t had a chance to talk to Wife as yet
[2018-12-01, 5:39:26 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Leaving red deer now it
[2018-12-01, 5:50:29 PM] Mohammad Rauf: MashaAllah
[2018-12-01, 5:50:33 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Drive safe sidi
[2018-12-01, 5:50:39 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Snow on the roads
[2018-12-01, 5:50:47 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Possibly slick
[2018-12-02, 5:43:38 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: 377 Nolan Hill Blvd NW
[2018-12-20, 1:27:34 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam sidi- good time to call in the next little bit?
[2018-12-20, 1:28:30 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa salam Sidi. I am going to be free at about 4:00ish
[2018-12-20, 1:50:21 PM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah sidi- will chat then
[2019-01-01, 10:38:00 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- good time to talk today sometime? I want to tknow what convo happened between you and sidi Muhammad
[2019-01-01, 10:39:14 AM] Mohammad Rauf: This is absolutely ridiculous. It’s clear to me that he knew a lot about her, but not sure why he wouldnt share with me pre marriage.
[2019-01-01, 1:17:02 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa salam sidi. Insha’Allah I will try and call you later today
[2019-01-01, 1:19:22 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: What time is best for you?
[2019-01-01, 3:48:51 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salaam sidi- my batt is almost dead. InshAllah will msg and we can coordinate
[2019-01-01, 4:18:42 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I had a very lengthy convo with sidi Akrams wife
[2019-01-01, 4:18:58 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Earlier today. Willl discuss with you iA.
[2019-01-01, 4:51:24 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Okay insha’Allah. Let me know
[2019-01-01, 4:52:50 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Jazak Allah Khayr Sidi.
[2019-01-01, 4:55:51 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wayyakum sidi
[2019-01-02, 8:01:21 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Salam Sidi
[2019-01-02, 8:01:28 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Call me when you can please
[2019-01-02, 8:26:49 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam sidi- phone died
[2019-01-02, 8:27:03 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Sorry about that. Just got home
[2019-01-03, 3:56:49 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- not sure if I added this last time.. when you speak to Shaykh.. do mention I find her insincere/ shady. She has lied to me several times re: sleep. and do mention while I am open to therapy routes, really my preferred and highly desired route is to part ways. Therapy at the age of 34 is a high risk activity. Removing bad habits take hard work and long time. adding kids in the picture will be like shooting ourselves in the foot.
[2019-01-03, 4:01:55 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Also mention that I won’t be asking Sidi Muhammad for counsel anymore on this. He could’ve prevented this actually through some straight talking prior to marriage. We had time. He knows her very well. we have numerous brothers and sisters enter the Tariqa and attend majalis for long time but it doesn’t make them suitable for marriage or business. We have brothers here whom I’ve seen coming for sometime but I wouldn’t recommend to any of our close sisters to them, say behrams sister for example.
[2019-01-03, 4:08:50 AM] Mohammad Rauf: I like the Muhammadan approach. However, clever people can take advantage of the soft and loving approach.
[2019-01-03, 11:16:35 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- InshAllah will be taking day off tomorrow and will head out after Juma InshAllah
[2019-01-03, 11:16:59 AM] Mohammad Rauf: You and I should talk and have a convo action plan... when you speak with her.
[2019-01-03, 11:18:10 AM] Mohammad Rauf: a friend wants to cross country ski in Canmore and stay there overnight. He gets a nice rate from his firm. I will prolly head out InshAllah.
[2019-01-03, 11:18:26 AM] Mohammad Rauf: And you can speak to her InshAllah
[2019-01-03, 2:33:09 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Salam Sidi. I wasn’t able to get a hold of Shaykh. I’ll try again tomorrow morning insha’Allah
[2019-01-03, 2:33:40 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: When is a good time for you to speak today?
[2019-01-03, 4:10:41 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- I will be heading out after Maghreb for errands, InshAllah. Will that be ok time for you?
[2019-01-03, 4:58:16 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Today was a *very* diff day.. will tell you all about. She is exhausted now, went to sleep.
[2019-01-03, 5:03:14 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Salam Sidi. Call when you can
[2019-01-04, 2:34:25 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- sorry we couldn’t connect yday. InshAlalh will be in Calgary early so I am hoping we can have a good chat InshAllah
[2019-01-04, 2:59:25 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa Salam Sidi. What time will you be arriving
[2019-01-04, 3:03:06 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I think I will be outta here around 4 InshAllah
[2019-01-04, 3:03:19 PM] Mohammad Rauf: So hoping by 630-7
[2019-01-04, 5:23:27 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Did u end up talking to Shaykh
[2019-01-04, 6:43:50 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Yes alhamdulillah. How long until you arrive?
[2019-01-04, 6:51:50 PM] Mohammad Rauf: 30 mins iA
[2019-01-04, 6:51:54 PM] Mohammad Rauf: 715
[2019-01-04, 6:52:45 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Last coupla days have been interesting
[2019-01-05, 10:27:04 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Salam Sidi. Sayyida Ameera asked us to stay here for a few days. Can you make arrangements to find a way back to Edmonton tomorrow.

… we’ve had our conversation in Ramy’s basement which Ramy recorded

[2019-01-06, 8:05:40 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi. No problem. How about Monday? When would she like to go back?
[2019-01-06, 8:06:19 AM] Mohammad Rauf: I am working from home on Monday...
[2019-01-06, 8:40:09 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: She will probably stay for at least a few days sidi. She needs some time alone
[2019-01-06, 8:41:03 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Sounds good. No problem sidi. InshAllah will figure something out.
[2019-01-06, 8:41:16 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Jazakum’Allahu khair
[2019-01-06, 8:42:03 AM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah can you & I talk speak today InshAllah?
[2019-01-06, 12:04:42 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: I will try and call you later in the evening insha’Allah. I’ll be at work most of the day today
[2019-01-06, 3:56:39 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam sidi- np. Heading back in a lil bit InshAllah
[2019-01-06, 3:56:59 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I will be driving back with my brother tomorrow InshAllah
[2019-01-06, 3:57:26 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Is it ok if I stayed at the Zawiyah overnight?
[2019-01-06, 4:00:24 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa Salam Sidi. I think given the circumstances sidi it might be best if you were able to stay elsewhere. My apologies
[2019-01-06, 4:27:36 PM] Mohammad Rauf: No problem sidi. I don’t think there is anything up in the room.
[2019-01-06, 4:30:12 PM] Mohammad Rauf: If you are able to speak this evening InshAllah that would be good. A bit of follow up will be helpful InshAllah.
[2019-01-06, 4:53:16 PM] Mohammad Rauf: whenever is convenient for you sidi- know you are busy with work/fam ..
[2019-01-06, 5:13:42 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa Salam Sidi. I’m still at work and Insha’Allah I will try and call you tonight. But if I can’t then we will insha’Allah talk tomorrow
[2019-01-06, 5:14:17 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: I’m really sorry but I am very behind in my work 🥴
[2019-01-06, 5:27:44 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Khayr sidi- Inshallah np.
[2019-01-16, 10:51:07 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- just a thought came to mind, thought I’d share... if I calculate, there are now 4 diff responses / reasons to oversleeping that have surfaced... me tossing around, there is construction around house, we have blinds that are not close enough, stress and depression... So if you follow my dilemma, which reason/s is correct?
[2019-01-16, 10:51:47 PM] Mohammad Rauf: some of which I’ve tried addressing..
[2019-01-16, 10:52:00 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Leaves me extremely confused.
[2019-01-16, 10:54:07 PM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah we will talk more later, Sidi.
[2019-01-16, 11:02:08 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Insha’Allah
[2019-01-17, 8:31:00 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- can we wait till this wkd before talking to her. I’d like to pray istikhara a few times InshAllah.
[2019-01-17, 8:44:35 AM] Mohammad Rauf: And also have my reconciliation thoughts down well which I will email InshAllah.
[2019-01-18, 12:05:41 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa Salam Sidi. Insha’Allah call me when you would like to talk. Jumu`ah Mubarak
[2019-01-18, 10:35:03 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Wassalaam Sidi- Jumuah Mubarak to you too, Sidi. Keep me in your duas.
[2019-01-18, 8:12:01 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Tawfiq insha’Allah
[2019-01-20, 9:29:41 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Salam Sidi
[2019-01-20, 9:30:28 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Was expecting your call this weekend
[2019-01-20, 9:30:32 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: What happened?
[2019-01-20, 9:37:27 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- was dedicating the wkd to thinking through and making istikhara. I should’ve updated you.
[2019-01-20, 9:37:38 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Sorry about that.
[2019-01-20, 9:38:02 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Khair insha’Allah. So what’s the update Sidi
[2019-01-20, 9:38:41 PM] Mohammad Rauf: can you talk now InshAllah?
[2019-01-20, 9:38:47 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Yes
[2019-01-20, 9:46:37 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: She said she can speak to you on Tuesday after you finish work
[2019-01-20, 9:47:06 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Sounds good- InshAllah
[2019-01-20, 9:47:29 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Jazak Allah Khayr Sidi.
[2019-01-20, 9:48:09 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: No later than 6:30 pm
[2019-01-20, 9:48:18 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wayyakum
[2019-01-20, 9:48:26 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Sounds good.
[2019-01-21, 8:46:08 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- can I call you for a few mins?
[2019-01-21, 8:46:50 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa Salam. Just finishing dinner and I will call you insha’Allah
[2019-01-21, 8:47:01 PM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah.
[2019-01-21, 8:47:08 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Jak
[2019-01-21, 9:12:04 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Although I am doubting she’d want money from me lol given the situation
[2019-01-21, 9:39:41 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I also updated Sidi Shelby and InshAllah will be speaking with Shaykh as well, InshAllah
[2019-01-21, 9:40:07 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: How mich did you want to send Sidi?
[2019-01-21, 9:58:48 PM] Mohammad Rauf: how about a 100? That should cover for a lil bit InshAllah
[2019-01-21, 9:58:59 PM] Mohammad Rauf: should I just send it to you?
[2019-01-21, 10:07:57 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: No Sidi you can send it directly to her
[2019-01-21, 10:08:02 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I may also call sidi Shaykh Ramzy tomorrow and understand the fiqh of separation if I am able to block off sometime during the day and if he is able to speak.
[2019-01-21, 10:08:10 PM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah sidi
[2019-01-21, 10:08:17 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Tawfiq insha’Allah
[2019-01-21, 10:08:23 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Shukran sidi- thank you for checking sidi
[2019-01-24, 8:15:11 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi
[2019-01-24, 8:16:11 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Sorry we haven’t spoken in a few days. i spoke with Sh Ramzy. He asked me to email him.. just gonna wait to hear back
[2019-01-24, 8:17:07 PM] Mohammad Rauf: As far as I understand he spoke with Shaykh as well. He sounded firm on reconciliation... I will wait to hear back InshAllah.
[2019-01-24, 8:18:55 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa Salam. What are your thoughts?
[2019-01-24, 8:31:20 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Sh Ramzy asked me to email him.. I laid it out clear.. I can try, sidi.. but I see the odds stacked against.
[2019-01-24, 8:31:43 PM] Mohammad Rauf: We have a massive personality gap
[2019-01-24, 8:32:01 PM] Mohammad Rauf: and incompatibility
[2019-01-24, 8:32:18 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Will see what Sh Ramzy says
[2019-01-24, 8:32:19 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: What did you lay out for Shaykh? What did he ask you to email him?
[2019-01-24, 8:32:27 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I mentioned to him the whole meal deal
[2019-01-24, 8:32:53 PM] Mohammad Rauf: The advice he gave me and my feedback on it
[2019-01-24, 8:33:14 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I can fwd you iA
[2019-01-24, 8:33:18 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Okay interesting
[2019-01-24, 8:33:22 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Just heading to majlis
[2019-01-24, 8:33:24 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: As you wish Sidi
[2019-01-24, 8:40:35 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Give my Salam to Sidi Shelby and the fuqara
[2019-01-24, 8:50:45 PM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah sidi
[2019-01-24, 8:56:55 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Wife also wanted her stuff this wkd
[2019-01-24, 8:57:03 PM] Mohammad Rauf: As much of it that can be brought back
[2019-01-24, 8:59:26 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Okay insha’Allah. If you want you can message me after the majlis and if I’m up we can chat
[2019-01-24, 8:59:54 PM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah
[2019-01-25, 11:43:59 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- available to speak after work today?
[2019-01-25, 11:46:52 AM] Mohammad Rauf: I had a conversation with Sh Ramzy- advice is to reconcile InshAllah.
[2019-01-25, 11:47:48 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Did you have a chance to talk to her recently? And wether her views changed?
[2019-01-25, 2:25:01 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa Salam Sidi. I’ll try and call you on my way home insha’Allah
[2019-01-25, 2:31:16 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Shukran sidi- I will probably on the road between 5-6 riding back home. but should be home after InshAllah
[2019-01-26, 1:53:40 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: I will call you later Sidi.
[2019-01-26, 1:54:02 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Haven’t connected with sayyida Ameera yet
[2019-01-26, 1:54:17 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Np sidi- whenever iA
[2019-01-26, 1:54:20 PM] Mohammad Rauf: We are here
[2019-01-26, 1:54:29 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Jazak Allah Khayr
[2019-01-26, 1:54:29 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Here where?
[2019-01-26, 1:54:37 PM] Mohammad Rauf: In Calgary
[2019-01-26, 1:54:43 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Okay
[2019-01-26, 1:54:44 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Just rolled
[2019-01-26, 2:46:04 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Okay Sidi when can you be here?
[2019-01-26, 2:46:29 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I am at sidi Shelby’s parents right now
[2019-01-26, 2:46:34 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I could swing by
[2019-01-26, 2:46:53 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I messenged her earlier
[2019-01-26, 2:47:00 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Haven’t heard anything
[2019-01-26, 2:47:05 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Suspect she is resting ..
[2019-01-26, 2:47:22 PM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah lemme know what u like me to do
[2019-01-26, 2:55:28 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: We are waiting for your arrival
[2019-01-26, 2:55:41 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Everyone is awake
[2019-01-26, 2:56:09 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: When can you be here
[2019-01-26, 2:56:44 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: How about 4:30
[2019-01-26, 2:57:12 PM] Mohammad Rauf: 👍
[2019-01-26, 2:57:21 PM] Mohammad Rauf: We will be there InshAllah
[2019-01-26, 2:57:37 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Totally forgot mawlid is by your place
[2019-01-26, 2:57:57 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Yes the mawlid is 2 min away
[2019-01-26, 2:58:18 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Khalas we come by a little early and drop by InshAllah
[2019-01-26, 2:58:32 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Jazak Allah Khayr, sidi.
[2019-01-26, 3:00:13 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wayyakum
[2019-01-26, 4:10:17 PM] Mohammad Rauf: On my way in a few mins InshAllah.
[2019-01-26, 4:27:59 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wait for me outside the house
[2019-01-26, 4:33:27 PM] Mohammad Rauf: 👍
[2019-01-26, 4:35:27 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Outside
[2019-01-27, 7:56:41 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- are u available for a quick coffee later in the evening InshAllah? Or a phone convo- whatever is easiest?
[2019-01-27, 12:04:02 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa Salam Sidi. I will message you later and let you know insha’Allah
[2019-01-27, 12:04:21 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: I’ve got a presentation to work on today for tomorrow
[2019-01-27, 1:30:53 PM] Mohammad Rauf: 👍
[2019-01-27, 1:33:55 PM] Mohammad Rauf: No rush sidi- we can do over next coupla days
[2019-01-28, 6:33:37 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- I have a remote meeting at 7 .. InshAllah I will message you after sidi.
[2019-01-28, 6:54:41 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Insha’Allah
[2019-01-29, 8:44:43 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- can talk in a lil bit?
[2019-01-29, 8:44:50 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Say 15-20?
[2019-02-02, 11:10:24 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- I just sent an email to you that I was planning on sending to her...
[2019-02-02, 11:10:46 PM] Mohammad Rauf: For feedback, if you have some time and are able, sidi.
[2019-02-03, 1:19:39 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa Salam Sidi
[2019-02-03, 1:19:42 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: "More money than brains" could've been said something like: "babe, is it ok if we save some for our upcoming TO trip or the next bike, whichever comes first."
[2019-02-03, 1:19:51 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: This part is Not necessary
[2019-02-03, 1:46:16 PM] Mohammad Rauf: 👍
[2019-02-03, 9:03:33 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Did you send?
[2019-02-03, 9:06:41 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi/ not yet- been outta the house all day. InshAllah when I arrive back.
[2019-02-03, 9:11:50 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: 👍🏽
[2019-02-03, 10:19:56 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Sidi
[2019-02-03, 10:20:14 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Send before bed. She asked me again today about an email from you
[2019-02-03, 10:20:36 PM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah Sidi- I am just driving back.
[2019-02-03, 10:21:01 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Okay. Let me know when you’ve hit send. And don’t forget to make the edits
[2019-02-03, 10:21:13 PM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah Sidi.
[2019-02-03, 10:48:08 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Sent sidi
[2019-02-03, 10:50:56 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: 👍🏽
[2019-02-03, 10:51:28 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Insha’Allah khair
[2019-02-09, 7:08:14 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- I sent her the email. Alhamdulillah.
[2019-02-09, 7:08:24 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Jazak Allah Khayr.
[2019-02-09, 8:27:54 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa salam. Wayyakum
[2019-02-11, 3:25:03 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- what day / time will be good for the meeting over the weekend? InshAllah if she is still up for it?
[2019-02-11, 3:25:48 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I just have to book the bus, InshAllah.
[2019-02-16, 9:20:49 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- InshAllah planning on heading down Monday AM, I msged Wife and asked if it will be good and she seemed fine with it. Will that day be OK for you? I am trying to figure out a car for the trip, if not, will have to bus it down, InshaAllah.
[2019-02-16, 9:49:58 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa Salam Sidi. Not sure I will speak with Sayyida Ameera and my family and let you know insha’Allah
[2019-02-16, 9:51:38 PM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah Sidi- Jazak Allah Khayr sidi.
[2019-02-17, 8:45:35 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- InshAllah intending to being in Calgary by early afternoon tomorrow. If that’s ok.
[2019-02-18, 9:27:57 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Salam Sidi. Sayyida Ameera updated me on your conversation. Any idea what your next steps are going to be?
[2019-02-18, 10:07:18 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Wassalam sidi/ jazak Allah Khayr. InshAllah give me a day or so. I will update you, InshAllah. Shukran sidi.
[2019-02-19, 1:53:56 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi- Wife sounded firm on partying ways... InshAllah I will message her tonight for a reconciliation attempt InshAllah.
[2019-02-25, 8:19:29 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Salam Sidi. We should talk finances soon insha’Allah
[2019-02-25, 8:27:13 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Wassalaam sidi- InshAllah.
[2019-02-25, 8:27:45 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I will find out what needs to be done, InshAllah.
[2019-02-27, 7:10:05 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi
[2019-02-27, 7:10:09 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Sorry missed your call
[2019-02-27, 7:10:16 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I am with my parents at the moment
[2019-02-27, 7:10:26 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I can’t talk tonight
[2019-02-27, 7:11:07 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Just doing some damage control
[2019-02-27, 7:11:17 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Jak sidi- lemme message you tomorrow, InshAllah
[2019-02-27, 7:12:12 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I spoke to her briefly re: finances
[2019-02-27, 7:12:25 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I will send her the funds as soon as I get home InshAllah
[2019-02-27, 8:45:56 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa salam. Sidi I had mentioned that you and I should speak about this
[2019-02-27, 8:47:37 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Wassalaam Sidi- Inshallah we can, not a problem.
[2019-02-27, 8:48:35 PM] Mohammad Rauf: She had to verify dollars for me.
[2019-02-27, 8:48:56 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: What does that mean
[2019-02-27, 8:50:19 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Like the total amount we had received
[2019-02-27, 8:50:30 PM] Mohammad Rauf: From family and friends
[2019-02-27, 8:50:56 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I wanted to confirm if I have the right amount. Alhamdulillah.

Ramy starts talking about moneys while she is in Calgary

[2019-02-27, 8:51:49 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: That was not what I wanted to speak about
[2019-02-27, 8:52:07 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: I wanted to speak about her financial support the past 8 weeks
[2019-02-27, 8:52:40 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: The wedding money is a completely separate issue
[2019-02-27, 8:56:25 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Oh- np. I sent her funds
[2019-02-27, 8:56:34 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: How much
[2019-02-27, 8:56:38 PM] Mohammad Rauf: 150
[2019-02-27, 8:56:44 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: For 8 weeks
[2019-02-27, 8:56:51 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I will let you know when I sent it
[2019-02-27, 8:56:53 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Hmm
[2019-02-27, 8:56:59 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I sent 100 first
[2019-02-27, 8:57:11 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I will check dates
[2019-02-27, 8:57:18 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I believe they are a month  apart
[2019-02-27, 8:57:24 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I will confirm when I get home
[2019-02-27, 8:57:40 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: $250 for 8 weeks Sidi
[2019-02-27, 8:58:03 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: How do you expect her to live?
[2019-02-27, 8:58:34 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Do you spend only $250 in 8 weeks
[2019-02-27, 8:58:48 PM] Mohammad Rauf: 200 :)
[2019-02-27, 8:59:02 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I have asked her to just ping me I can transfer InshAllah
[2019-02-27, 8:59:08 PM] Mohammad Rauf: But I can send her more
[2019-02-27, 8:59:20 PM] Mohammad Rauf: it’s no problem.
[2019-02-27, 8:59:27 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: She shouldn’t be asking you for money
[2019-02-27, 8:59:44 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: You should send her at least $100/week
[2019-02-27, 9:00:07 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Any reason why I should do that?
[2019-02-27, 9:00:13 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: She should not be in a position to have to ask someone for money
[2019-02-27, 9:00:16 PM] Mohammad Rauf: We never had such an agreement
[2019-02-27, 9:00:19 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: She is your wife
[2019-02-27, 9:00:26 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: You are responsible for her
[2019-02-27, 9:00:43 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: She is not required to spend a penny of her money
[2019-02-27, 9:00:53 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I never asked to
[2019-02-27, 9:01:37 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I think i should know why is 100/wk is needed
[2019-02-27, 9:01:55 PM] Mohammad Rauf: that doesn’t seem reasonable to me
[2019-02-27, 9:02:09 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: She needs to eat, buy personal things, get gas and other things
[2019-02-27, 9:02:19 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: You’re opinion is not important
[2019-02-27, 9:02:37 PM] Mohammad Rauf: hmm, perhaps as a husband o should know?
[2019-02-27, 9:02:47 PM] Mohammad Rauf: It’s not an opinion
[2019-02-27, 9:02:59 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: This is called an opinion
[2019-02-27, 9:03:29 PM] Mohammad Rauf: If she can lemme know her needs we can make it work, Inshallah
[2019-02-27, 9:03:37 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: I just did
[2019-02-27, 9:03:56 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: You need to send her at least $100/week
[2019-02-27, 9:03:57 PM] Mohammad Rauf: And sorry but those doesn’t add up to 100 a week
[2019-02-27, 9:04:04 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Lemme try InshAllah
[2019-02-27, 9:05:02 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: I’m sure this is not difficult
[2019-02-27, 9:05:22 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: And not excessive whatsoever
[2019-02-27, 9:05:29 PM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah- not a problem.
[2019-02-27, 9:05:58 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: This means that by the end of this week you should have already sent her a total of $800
[2019-02-27, 9:05:59 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I will have to take a look iA but 100 a week def seem excessive
[2019-02-27, 9:06:47 PM] Mohammad Rauf: may be I will send her another 200 InshAllah. I am sorry. It’s not adding up.
[2019-02-27, 9:07:12 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Really...
[2019-02-27, 9:07:32 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: I think you should consult someone so you can find out how reasonable we are being
[2019-02-27, 9:08:06 PM] Mohammad Rauf: for the 2 ppl our monthly expenses were 500 including gas
[2019-02-27, 9:08:24 PM] Mohammad Rauf: That’s 2 ppl. :)
[2019-02-27, 9:08:29 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Was your apartment and all those expenses free
[2019-02-27, 9:09:18 PM] Mohammad Rauf: is she paying those right now?
[2019-02-27, 9:09:23 PM] Mohammad Rauf: That’s why I am asking
[2019-02-27, 9:09:42 PM] Mohammad Rauf: If she is that’s ok.
[2019-02-27, 9:10:50 PM] Mohammad Rauf: 250 a month should be good InshAllah. if I go by my historical expenses.
[2019-02-27, 9:11:12 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I paid her 250 for now. I can send her more InshAllah
[2019-02-27, 9:11:25 PM] Mohammad Rauf: And I will also send her wedding monies.
[2019-02-27, 9:11:31 PM] Mohammad Rauf: all in one InshAllah
[2019-02-27, 9:12:13 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: I don’t know if you are capable of insight.
[2019-02-27, 9:12:20 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: This is a separate issue
[2019-02-27, 9:12:27 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: We will speak another day
[2019-02-27, 9:12:28 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Salam
[2019-02-27, 9:13:35 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Not a problem. You can let me know what the wedding monies will be. I am basing it off of how we lived here and how she lived prior to marriage, Alhamdulillah.
[2019-02-27, 9:14:47 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Sorry sidi- I hate to be argumentative and sounding hostile. This has been a very interesting experience for me and my family, to say the least. WalHamdulillah.
[2019-02-27, 9:18:02 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I already identified what is required to finalize the divorce, InshAllah.
[2019-02-27, 9:19:47 PM] Mohammad Rauf: It’s quite sad. I am sorry.
[2019-02-27, 9:33:55 PM] Mohammad Rauf: MashaAllah- I am thankful to you, honestly, for your support and work over the last 2 months. I am honestly very grateful. You’ve been exceptional and I learned a lot. It’s unfortunate things didn’t work out. Alhamdulillah. This is not the end game. Answers will be for Allah and each one knows what they have with them. Walhamdulillah.
[2019-02-27, 9:34:43 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I pray that I never have to see again what I saw in this.
[2019-02-27, 9:34:48 PM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah
[2019-02-27, 9:36:18 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I do want to apologize to you for my bad Adab. I think anyone in my place woulda been. If not worse.
[2019-02-27, 9:36:27 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Please forgive me.
[2019-02-27, 9:42:05 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: I am not nor have I been offended at all in this process. I am only a middle person and I pray that this has all been for the sake of Allah and continues to be that way
[2019-02-27, 9:43:50 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I love you for the sake of Allah. You’ve been exceptional, sidi. All your help. Wallahi. I could barely muster up 1% of adab that you have. It’s very hard!
[2019-02-27, 9:44:52 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: We pray that Allah loves you and brings goodness to you in this life and the next.
[2019-02-27, 9:44:54 PM] Mohammad Rauf: And jn all honesty. I was gonna send you some money sidi
[2019-02-27, 9:45:12 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Alhamdulillah I am not in need of any money
[2019-02-27, 9:45:35 PM] Mohammad Rauf: For everything- use it as you wish, zawiuaj, home etc. I know you are not!
[2019-02-27, 9:46:09 PM] Mohammad Rauf: You will never be! Lol
[2019-02-27, 9:46:22 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: I just do not like seeing someone have to ask another person for money when they need to buy something
[2019-02-27, 9:46:47 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I’d be with you
[2019-02-27, 9:46:59 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Whatever money you had planned to send me please give it directly to Ameera
[2019-02-27, 9:47:39 PM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah sidi
[2019-02-27, 9:47:56 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Jazakum’Allahu Khair
[2019-02-27, 9:48:03 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Goodnight Sidi. 
Salam
[2019-02-27, 9:51:11 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Wassalam
[2019-02-27, 9:56:12 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Also- we can talk wedding monies tomorrow.
[2019-02-27, 9:56:18 PM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah
[2019-03-01, 9:05:51 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam sidi- I’ve spoken to Wife re: wedding monies. The total amount was 820. InshAllah I will send her the half tonight.
[2019-03-01, 9:07:02 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Outstanding items will be car and travels. Whenever she decides to travel I can resolve with that, InshAllah.
[2019-03-01, 9:07:18 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I also sent her some extra monies.
[2019-03-01, 9:07:22 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Alhamdulillah.
[2019-03-01, 9:07:28 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Jak sidi.
[2019-03-03, 11:57:43 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Salam Sidi. Before you finalize the divorce please speak with me. It is imperative
[2019-03-03, 11:58:00 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: I need to figure out where Ameera will be spending her Idda period
[2019-03-03, 11:58:21 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: It is almost 90 days long
[2019-03-03, 12:11:00 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Walaikum Assalaam sidi- InshAllah I will definitely.
[2019-03-05, 10:47:32 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam sidi- I can speak with you tomorrow during the day, InshAllah. And we can figure our divorce finalization. She has to spent her Idda where the divorce is given. we can wait till her travels, although I don’t want to delay it. InshAllah we can talk more.
[2019-03-06, 5:29:01 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam sidi- I can speak now if you are able to talk.
[2019-03-06, 5:29:30 PM] Mohammad Rauf: About half hour. I have to be somewhere between 6-8
[2019-03-06, 8:14:47 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam Sidi I can speak now if you are available now, InshAllah
[2019-03-06, 9:04:29 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam sidi- I am good now, InshAllah
[2019-03-08, 8:22:56 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam sidi- can you send me what the total came to for Wife’s flight InshAllah
[2019-03-08, 8:28:08 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I am looking at next weekend to bring the car over
[2019-03-08, 8:28:20 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I will fly back either Monday or Tuesday iA
[2019-03-09, 3:40:48 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa Salam. Khair insha’Allah
‎[2019-03-09, 3:41:49 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Electronic ticket receipt, March 11 for MRS WIFE E MASON • ‎2 pages ‎document omitted
[2019-03-09, 4:06:06 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Jazak Allah Khayr Sidi.
[2019-03-10, 2:22:23 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Jazakum’Allahu khair Sidi. I received the deposit
[2019-03-10, 2:23:07 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Sayyida Ameera mentions that there are  3 winter tires at your brothers home
[2019-03-10, 2:33:38 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Wassalam sidi- yes sidi ive made a note of it
[2019-03-10, 2:33:42 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Alhamdulillah
[2019-03-10, 2:33:54 PM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah I will take those back.
[2019-03-10, 2:34:35 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I will try to complete the set I will check with our used tire shop
[2019-03-10, 3:02:32 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Wayakum Sidi- thank you for taking care of it and your time.
[2019-03-10, 3:05:04 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Barak’Allahu fikum
[2019-03-11, 8:01:35 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Salam Sidi. Can you call Ameera now and finalize the divorce so she can begin idda
[2019-03-11, 8:01:42 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Jazakum’Allahu khair
[2019-03-11, 8:15:10 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam sidi- InshAllah i am out with my family running errands, When I get home I can call her.
[2019-03-11, 8:15:43 PM] Mohammad Rauf: If I am not mistaken- I have to say the Divorce, once?
[2019-03-11, 8:47:14 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Yes I believe you have to say that you divorce her once Sidi
[2019-03-11, 10:35:22 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I just did Sidi
[2019-03-11, 10:35:42 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Alhamdulillah
[2019-03-11, 10:36:35 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: May Allah facilitate that which is good for both of you in this life and the next
[2019-03-11, 10:36:51 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Ameen
[2019-03-12, 9:02:01 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam sidi- whenever you have a minute could you check Mazda’s mileage InshAllah?
‎[2019-03-12, 10:47:57 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: ‎image omitted
[2019-03-12, 10:48:16 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Jazak Allah Khayr Sidi.
[2019-03-12, 10:48:16 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa Salam
[2019-03-12, 10:48:20 PM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wayyakum
[2019-03-14, 11:19:08 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam sidi- planning on being in Calgary to pick the car up InshAllah
[2019-03-14, 11:19:22 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Not sure time as yet
[2019-03-14, 11:19:30 AM] Mohammad Rauf: But will be a day tripper
[2019-03-14, 11:21:11 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Wa Salam Sidi. What day?
[2019-03-14, 11:25:36 AM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah Saturday
[2019-03-14, 12:39:58 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Hoping it will be ok InshAllah
[2019-03-15, 8:47:03 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam sidi- I realize you have Dar Al Marifa tomorrow. What time will be good to come by?
[2019-03-15, 8:48:49 PM] Mohammad Rauf: I was thinking of leaving early. Like 8ish
[2019-03-16, 2:39:46 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Salam Sidi. I don’t think anyone will be awake at that time
[2019-03-16, 2:40:01 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: We are at the hospital right now and won’t be home at all
[2019-03-16, 2:40:09 AM] Sidi Ramy Elhamalawy: Later will be better
[2019-03-16, 8:46:47 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Oh MashAllah
[2019-03-16, 8:48:31 AM] Mohammad Rauf: InshAllah just let me know when. We will time our departure
[2019-03-16, 8:54:49 AM] Mohammad Rauf: I am planning to leave for TO InshAllah
[2019-03-16, 8:59:13 AM] Mohammad Rauf: Tomorrow InshAllah
[2019-03-16, 6:17:58 PM] Mohammad Rauf: Salam sidi- we are here- if you are home we can swing by INshAllah